| CO-OPERATIVE DISCIPLINE |
| STRATEGIES for SUCCESS ..focus on learning |
| SIGNIFICANT "7" | ||
| 1. Strong perceptions of personal capabilities." I am capable." |
| 2. Strong perception of significance in primary relationships. "I contribute in meaningful ways and I am genuinely needed ." |
| 3. Stong perception of personal power of influence over life." I can influence what happens to me." |
| 4. Strong intra-personal skills. The abiluty to understand personal emotions , to use that understanding to develop self-discipline and self-control , and learn from experiences. |
| 5. Strong interpersonal skills. The ability to work with others and develop friendships through comunicating , cooperating, negotiating , sharing , empathizing , and listening. |
| 6. Strong systemic skills . The ability to respond to the limits and consequences of everyday life with responsibility , adaptability , flexibility , and integrity . |
| 7. Strong judgmental skills . The ability to use wisdom and to evaluate according to appropriate values. |
| CLASSROOM MANAGEMENT STYLES |
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| THE CODE of CONDUCT |
| I will complete my task/ assignment | ||
| I will respect others. | ||
| I will prepare for learning | ||
| I will maintain a safe school | ||
| I will not prevent the teacher from teaching | ||
| I will not prevent students from learning | ||
| THE THREE C'S of ENCOURAGEMENT |
| CAPABLE |
| CONNECTED |
| CONTRIBUTING |
| HELPING STUDENTS FEEL CAPABLE.................. |
| CONFIDENCE BUILDERS |
| Focus on improvement | ||
| Notice contributions | ||
| Build on strengths | ||
| Acknowdede a task's difficulty | ||
| Set time limits on tasks | ||
| Show faith in students | ||
| ACKNOWLEDGE ACHIEVEMENT |
| Applause | ||
| Clapping and standing ovations | ||
| Stars and stickers | ||
| Awards and assemblies | ||
| Exhibits | ||
| LEARNING IS TANGIBLE |
| "I can" cans | ||
| Albums and portfolios | ||
| Checklists of skills | ||
| Flowchart of concepts | ||
| Discuss yesterday , today , and tomarrow | ||
| MAKE MISTAKES is O.K. |
| Minimize mistakes effect | ||
| Discuss mistakes | ||
| Equate mistakes with effort | ||
| SUCCESS |
| Analyze past success | ||
| Repeat past success | ||
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| HELPING STUDENTS CONNECT |
| ACCEPTANCE |
| Students cultural differences | ||
| Disabilities | ||
| personal style | ||
| Accept the doer , not the deed | ||
| ATTENTION |
| Greet students | ||
| Listen | ||
| Teach them to ask for attention | ||
| Attend school events | ||
| Recognize birthdays | ||
| Send cards , massages to absent students | ||
| Individual conferences | ||
| APPRECIATION |
| Appreciate the doer , not the deed | ||
| Use three part appreciation statements | ||
| Give wtitten words of appreciation | ||
| AFFIRMATION |
| Affirm the doer , not the deed | ||
| Enthusiastic | ||
| Acknowledge positive traits verbally or in writing | ||
| Be a talent scout | ||
| AFFECTION |
| Give affection with no strings attached | ||
| Show kindness , and it will multiply and be returned | ||
| Show friendship | ||
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| HELPING STUDENTS CONTRIBUTE |
| ENCOURAGE STUDENTS' CONTRIBUTION TO.................... |
| STUDENTS |
| * Circle of friends | ||
| * Peer tutoring | ||
| * Conflict resolution | ||
| * Peer recognition | ||
| THE CLASS |
| * Invite students to help with daily tasks | ||
| * Request students curriculum choices | ||
| * Appoint recorders | ||
| * Involve students in building the learning environment | ||
| THE SCHOOL |
| * Schedule work service periods | ||
| * Appoint area monitor | ||
| THE COMMUNITY |
| * Adopt a zoo animal | ||
| * Promote volunteerism | ||
| * Acknowledge random acts of kindness | ||
| * Contribute to community drives | ||
| THE ENVIRONMENT |
| * Recycle | ||
| * Clean up the neighborhood | ||
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| MISTAKEN GOAL CHART |
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| ATTENTION SEEKING STRATEGIES |
| NOTICE THE APPROPRIATE BEHAVIOR |
| Use proximity praise |
| Use compliance praise |
| Make recordings |
| Give a standing ovation |
| DISTRACT THE STUDENT |
| Ask a direct question |
| Ask a favor |
| Give a choice |
| Change the activity |
| DO THE UNEXPECTED |
| Turn out he lights |
| Play a musical sound |
| Lower your voice |
| Change your voice |
| Talk to the wall |
| Use one-liners |
| CLARIFY the DESIRED BEHAVIOR |
| State Grandma's law |
| Use "target - stop -do" |
| MINIMIZE THE ATTENTION |
| Refuse to respond |
| GIve the EYE |
| Stand close by |
| Use name dropping |
| Send a secret signal |
| Give written notice |
| Use an "I' message |
| LEGITAMIZE the BEHAVIOR |
| Create a lesson from the behavior |
| Go the distance |
| Have the class join in |
| Use a dimimishing quota |
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| STRATEGIES |
| Modify the Instructional Methods |
| Use concrete learning materials |
| Use computer based instruction |
| Teach one step at a time |
| Teach the 7 intelligences |
| Provide tutoring |
| Extra help from teachers |
| Remediation programs |
| Adult volunteers |
| Peer tutoring |
| Learning centers |
| Reframe the "I cant's" |
| State your belief in their abilities |
| Stage an "I can't funeral " |
| Encourage positive self-talk |
| Post positive classroom signs |
| Require 2 "put ups" for evry "put down" |
| Encourage positive self talk before tasks |
| Teach Procedures for becoming "unstuck" |
| Brainstorm ask for help gambits |
| Use sequence charts |
| GRACEFUL EXITS |
| ACKNOWLEDGE STUDENT'S POWER - a Student refuses to complete an assignment . Teacher responds," I can't make you do the work , you have the assignment - it is your choice." The expectation has not changed thought the teacher has chosen not to fuel the confrontation and create a power struggle. |
| REMOVE THE AUDIENCE- When a student demomonstrates inappropriate behavior which does not require immediate action from the teacher , the intervention can be to remove the audience's sttention . The teacher can make an important announcement or begin a new activity to redirect the attention of the class from the student misbehaving. |
| TABLE THE MATTER - A student has chosen to push our buttons . To deesscalte the situation , the teacher may respond by discussing the matter at a later time or using the gripe box in the clasrrom. The student is directed to write the complaint and place it in the box. |
| SCHEDULE A CONFERENCE- Keep a clipboard handy with the time available for student conferences. When a student signs up to challenge you , indicate that he may sign up for a conference to discuss the issue. |
| AGREE WITH THE STUDENT- A student staes that you are the worst teacher. The teacher responds , " You may be right , now open your book to the lesson. The student will realize that he is not able to engage the teacher in a power struggle that the teacher refuses to join. |
| CHANGE THE SUBJECT- We can respond to verbal attacks by changing the subject. The teacher can talk about the weather instead of responding to the comments. When the teacher is persistant , the student realizes the teacher will not argue with him. Lecturing will only escalate the confrontation. |
| STATE BOTH VIEWPOINTS- The poutline for this technique is " To you_________________________, to me_________________"For example , To you the science experiment seems foolish , to me it is imporatant concept you need to know..If the student continues to argue , specify the difference between understanding and agreeing. The student dos not have to argue our viewpoint - that would extend the power issue. |
| REFUSE RESONSIBILITY- When astudent provides excuses for not meeting expectations , acomment such as" I know you can figure it Out" does not provide the student with additional justification to argue. |
| DODGE IRRELEVANT ISSUES- Atudent may begin arguing about an assignment and then irrelevant issues to confuse the situtaion. Use a simple response , such as , "That is not the issue , the issue is_____________. |
| DELIVER A CLOSING STATEMENT- This technique use one line statements to indicate to the student that the confrontation has ended for us. |
| As with all graceful exits , particular attention must br given to paraverbals and kinesics. Sracasm is not acceptable.EXAMPLES: |
| "You've mistaken me for someone who wants to argue." Are you finished" "Unless you have something new to add , I'm finished with this conversation." |
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| INVITING and DISINVITING SIGNALS |
| Personal behaviors.................................................................... |
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| VERBAL COMMENTS>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> |
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| PHYSICAL ENVIRONMENTS>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> |
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| BUTTON PUSHERS |
| Directions : The following statements are typical of students of different ages. Assume they have said each of them to you after an unpleasant classroom confrontation. Write at least one graceful exit for each statement; |
| 1. I don't know why I have to be in this dumb class anyway.____________________________________________ |
| 2. You're the meanest math teacher I ever had________________________________ |
| 3. Who ever said that you know how to coach?__________________________________ |
| 4. I can't learn anything the way you teach___________________________________ |
| 5. This class sucks_________________________________________________ |
| 6. I sure wish I didn't have to be doing this stupid science experiment right now__________________________ |
| 7. I can't wait for the bell to ring. This class is driving me nuts___________________________ |
| 8. You'e not being fair=nobody else gives us weekend homework___________________________ |
| 9. I told you I'm not staying after class just because I was 10 minutes late________________________________ |
| 10. You can't make me redo this report just because the paper got messed up on the bus.____________________________________ |
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| CONFLICT RESOLUTION CONTRACT |
| Step 1 . Define the problem objectively_____________________________ |
| STEP 2. Describe the feelings of student and teacher |
| Student feelings____________________________ |
| Teacher fellings____________________________ |
| Step 3. Declare the needs of student and teacher |
| Student needs_______________________ |
| Teacher needs_______________________ |
| Step 4. Discuss and evaluate potential solutions |
| Solution 1:_____________________________________ |
| Advantages Disadvantages |
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| 2. 2. |
| 3. 3. |
| SOLUTION 2:___________________________________ |
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| Step 5 Decide on a plan______________________________ |
| Date effectiveness to be evaluated:________________________ |
| Step 6. Determine effectiveness. Plan working ?___________ NOT_______? |
| Modifications needed______________________________________ |
| Student signature_____________________________ |
| Teacher signature____________________________ |
| Today's date____________________ |
| Evaluate and follow up on (date)__________ |